Serious Management Problems

            In this meeting, I learned about serious behavior problems that happened in the school. They are defiant students, students’ aggression, students’ bullying and violence. All of those problems relate to the attitude and behavior problem. Defiant student means student who likes breaking the rules, disturbing the learning with sudden and annoyed expression or behavior or etc. I had an experience about dealing with defiant student when I was in School Experience Program. He looked at me with the weird glance. He looks normal in the appearance. I just found he was quite different when I did groups’ discussion. He rejected to do that task in groups. He kept asking why should be done in groups. Then after telling him about the reason, I found him disappeared. He went somewhere I did not know. And then, he came back to the class, and asked some questions by yelling to me. I came to him and answered with normal calm voice. That’s how I deal with that defiant student at that time.

            I was wondering if I am the example of aggressive student. I am calm and composed. However, once I got hurt or disappointed. I could be seriously aggressive. I could not find myself anymore at that kind of moment. I am blind. I know I have energies more than ordinary man that what makes me work harder than a man. Subconsciously, I take an advantage of it. I make myself as crowded as possible. I get myself busy to maximize it. Then, I have been bully and the bullies. I started being bullied since I was in my elementary school. Some of superior students who were rich really hate me so much. They humiliated me, threw me something, spread bad rumor and etc. Thank God, I do have very strong mentality as well. It did not really bother me. I never had intention to bully someone if I did it, it must be in the name of joking or kidding. I like kidding my friends around by making cruel threats or rude joking. It makes them scare of me and I enjoy it. Violence is truly of my mind. I promise myself not to do it. I definitely disagree and against it.  School, teacher, and parent need to concern about these problems. They need to create strategies and long-term solution to prevent and solve those problems when happened. Finally, schools’ rules and policies become the final product that needed to be socialized and followed by the students.