Let’s Build
Good Cooperation for Students’ Bright Future
Jajang Fauzan Muhafidh-2010120045- section C
When I was in
senior high school, I had a friend who basically, he was a
good person. However he got troubles in the school. I as class manager
at that time chatted with him and asked to him whether he completely seldom
went to school. He said that he also did not why he was. He just suggested me
not to follow what he did, since he got trouble with the school rules including
in academic field.
Actually, at that time my class
advisor had called him for many times. Even, he visited my friend’s house and
talked with his parents to discuss the problem. However, the result showed it was
not totally success in changing my friend’s behavior. It could not take long
times. My friend would do the same case in the school after getting out from
the problem. Whereas, my class advisor had strongly full enough help him in
order to be able to get next class level in the annual school meeting. This happened
when I was in first grade and definitely in same class with him. Then, when I
was in second grade, I heard that he was drop out from the school since he got
trouble in the misuse of drug. He also was put in the jail.
From my
experience, I get something to analyze. The teacher should build good relation
with the parents to make the teaching and learning process run well. It can be
applied by building good communication with them. According to Cameron & Lee
(1997; as cited in Jacobsen,
Eggen, Kauchak, 2009) argued that there are four benefits that students
will get if the teachers involve their parents in learning process. i.e. Higher
Achievement, More Positive Attitude, Better Attendance rates, and Greater Effort on Homework. The problems which
happened with my friend were located in these categories. He was lack of these
categories.
If I were the
teacher, I would observe the case and sit together with him to have usual
conversation heart to heart not as a teacher but just as a friend. I would not
go straight to the point in the
beginning. Then, I would discuss the problem, found out the reason and gave him
advice. This was what I meant as persuasive approach. On the same hand, I would
send my friend’s parents a letter to invite them to come to school and to
discuss the problem. After that, I would make a call to them to ensure the
information. If the parents came to school, I would serve them well and did not
straight into the point in the beginning. I would ask the parents to build good cooperation
in changing my friend’s behavior and attitude. Then, the parents and I would
make some agreements and continuity controlling. The parents and I would often
keep in touch and gave report each other until my friend got better in his behavior
and attitude. The parents and I needed to
care with my friend and geared his motivation up. I as a teacher would have
role in the school, and the parents gave treatment at home. Hopefully, it would
help him and not to be as what happened in the fact now.
Reference
Jacobsen, D.A., Eggen, P., Kauchak, D. (2009). Methods for teaching: promoting student
learning in
K–12 classrooms. United States of America: Pearson Education.